Tuesday, May 11, 2010

Tip 1 See, no touch

(Taken from blogger post that related to my CDS assessment)
I came across this blogger from http://typicalben.blogspot.com/2010/04/my-ah-ma-talks-about-sex.html#links where he mentioned about his ah ma talking about SEX.

“Still remember last time your parent  told and warn one of your female cousins/any relative that, when she's in a relationship the most important thing that she die die also cannot allow is to...

Let her boyfriend have sex with her.


Since, many parent had warn their daughter...

It is best to avoid physical contact unless necessary
It is best to avoided physical contact if you not familiar with the girl as they know that you are trying to find chances to take advantage and also regard you as a pervert. Once this type of impression, you have lost chances for other dates.

You are only entitled to put your hands on the girl's shoulder or hold her hand once you are confirmed as a couple.

For example like in the MRT train, it’s travels in a high speed and you accidentally touch her with some reason like you may not have something for you to hold on or when the train stop someone are rushing for the exit and push you. You can just apologize  to her, I think it is understand by her to have such a physical contact.

In Singapore, thinking are different. 
For western country, It is alright to give her a kiss on cheeks when you send her home and  for middle east they like to hug and kiss each other during their first date. In Singapore, we keep our hand to ourselves and see see no touch them. If not we will be charge for molest case and it will cost you a lot to prove your innocence.


p/s:  Give each other some freedom and let her have their own space too, that's how a relationship last.


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5 comments:

newmediascapes said...

Visually, there seems to be too many things happening on your blog - makes things confusing at times.

While an interesting topic, your post does not seem to be clearly aligned to what you set out to do - to help guys find their dream dates. Btw, what special insighst do you have that would make your readers want to learn from you?

Where are the internal post links and blogroll?

ahQ said...

Thanks for your comment teacher.
please click on " http://ahq21.blogspot.com/search/label/simply-Date " for my assessment

Rui Xiang said...

I agree with you, its important to leave a good impression during the first date.

newmediascapes said...

Are you sure that in the Middle East they have physical contact on their first dates?

ahQ said...

I did a google and found this" http://life.familyeducation.com/cross-cultural-communication/behavior/48975.html "

People like from France, Spain, Italy, and Portugal greet friends by kissing on both cheeks.

If you don't the girl will think negatively of you