(Taken from blogger post that related to my CDS assessment)
I came across this blogger from
http://typicalben.blogspot.com/2010/04/my-ah-ma-talks-about-sex.html#links where he mentioned about his ah ma talking about SEX.
“Still remember last time your parent told and warn one of your female cousins/any relative that, when she's in a relationship the most important thing that she die die also cannot allow is to...
Let her boyfriend have sex with her.
Since, many parent had warn their daughter...
It is best to avoid physical contact unless necessary
It is best to avoided physical contact if you not familiar with the girl as they know that you are trying to find chances to take advantage and also regard you as a pervert. Once this type of impression, you have lost chances for other dates.
You are only entitled to put your hands on the girl's shoulder or hold her hand once you are confirmed as a couple.
For example like in the MRT train, it’s travels in a high speed and you accidentally touch her with some reason like you may not have something for you to hold on or when the train stop someone are rushing for the exit and push you. You can just apologize to her, I think it is understand by her to have such a physical contact.
In Singapore, thinking are different.
For western country, It is alright to give her a kiss on cheeks when you send her home and for middle east they like to hug and kiss each other during their first date. In Singapore, we keep our hand to ourselves and see see no touch them. If not we will be charge for molest case and it will cost you a lot to prove your innocence.
p/s: Give each other some freedom and let her have their own space too, that's how a relationship last.
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