Tip3 Offer to pay on the first date

SIWM Assessment 

Show your generosity

It is always more gentlemanly if you can offer to pay the meal for your date. It show a the girl your generosity and sincerity.

I always offer to pay for my first date and that create a good impression on the girl, I know of friends who has cash flow problems asked to go 'Dutch' with the girl and he never got beyond the first date even when I gave him my advice before his date.

Whatever financial problems you have, it is best concealed, if not why go on dates in the first place if you cannot show your generosity?

Some girls pay their share

For some girls I went out with, they prefer to pay their share for the meal even after I offered to settle the bill in whole.

Sometimes you will find that the girl really cares for you and she is not after your money or being greedy. At other times, girls do not want to feel obligated for you paying as they feel that it is only a casual first date and both of you are not a couple yet. It will be different scenario once you become a couple.

Have enough funds

Overall, it is best to pay the bill on your first date. Always remember to bring more cash and use credit cards whenever possible.

This small gesture is very appreciated by women if you think than this is a small matter.

Tip 2 Evaluate your date

After your date with girl, you have to sit down and evaluate how you have done and whether there is any potential for something special or just to remain casual friends.

What have u did
Have you done things to impress  her for a second date? what was her reaction towards you.

You have to find out which actions you did pleased her. Which action caused her to frown/irritated her. All these questions you have to ask and evaluate yourself.

Have you learnt it?
It is only through regular contact with girls and going on dates with them, making mistakes and learning for them, will enable you to grow and have a better date experience.

Relationship / Friendship issue

There's no guarantee that relationship will last.
Sometime because of relationship friends start to drift away cos they are so busy with their other halves.
They can't concentrate in whatever they are doing and sometime they even feel like giving up their hobby. It also affect their preferment on study or work. They will even lose some good friends as they are busy thinking what their other halves is doing.
(Even after month of not meeting up, message them they will just reply can't meet or busy or even worst NO REPLY AT ALL..)

Your partner isn’t your everything.

You will lose things that’s important and that will be your FRIEND. Friends are really important as well.

As important as your partner or can be more important.

You’ll never know when your relationship will turn scour or come to an end and the people who will be support you will be your friends and family.

Tip 1 See, no touch

(Taken from blogger post that related to my CDS assessment)

I came across this blogger from http://typicalben.blogspot.com/2010/04/my-ah-ma-talks-about-sex.html#links where he mentioned about his ah ma talking about SEX.

“Still remember last time your parent  told and warn one of your female cousins/any relative that, when she's in a relationship the most important thing that she die die also cannot allow is to...

Let her boyfriend have sex with her.


Since, many parent had warn their daughter...

It is best to avoid physical contact unless necessary

It is best to avoided physical contact if you not familiar with the girl as they know that you are trying to find chances to take advantage and also regard you as a pervert. Once this type of impression, you have lost chances for other dates.

You are only entitled to put your hands on the girl's shoulder or hold her hand once you are confirmed as a couple.

For example like in the MRT train, it’s travels in a high speed and you accidentally touch her with some reason like you may not have something for you to hold on or when the train stop someone are rushing for the exit and push you. You can just apologize  to her, I think it is understand by her to have such a physical contact.

In Singapore, thinking are different. 

For western country, It is alright to give her a kiss on cheeks when you send her home and  for middle east they like to hug and kiss each other during their first date. In Singapore, we keep our hand to ourselves and see see no touch them. If not we will be charge for molest case and it will cost you a lot to prove your innocence.

p/s:  Give each other some freedom and let her have their own space too, that's how a relationship last.

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I’m using my personal blog to do my CDS assessment.

My focus is about relationship.
The reason why I creating this post is to help guys to be successful on their date so that he can be on his way to a beautiful friendship/relationship with the girl of his dream.

p/s: Quotes:  Every guy dreams of dating the girl of his dreams and every girl dreams of dating her prince charming.

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